hate thread

**xCOREx** · 10-09-2010, 11:42 PM

I hate hate threads that are under 40 pages :D

Really though a start is ...

I hate people who free load off of others. I hate the worlds obsession with sex. I hate people who think that you have to do more then 15 over the speed limit or you are in their way. I hate people who use religion to ignore life and reality as humanity understands it. I hate the cultural customs I am used to. I hate the part of me that care too much what people think of me. I hate the part of me that care about the world too much. I hate the part of me that doesnt care about the world enough. I hate drugs as a means of escape (all use atm99.999%). I hate going to a baseball game an only having friends that are drinking/drunk. I hate living in Milwaukee. As many others I could go on for a long time.

:S

**Lifestyle_X** · 10-10-2010, 04:24 AM

I hate friends that never show any interest in anything. That never ask you out. That always wait for you to talk to them. That always rely on me to drive if we go out, cause I'm the one with a license. And when I don't have my parent's car they don't care if we can't hang out together on the weekend. I hate friends who are not assertive and who think they know what life is cause they are now out of high school and work. I hate friends who are not social, and when others are around they say nothing cause they hate it.
I can go on and on, in the end I'm bitchin' about just one person actually.

**xCrucialDudex** · 10-10-2010, 04:52 AM

Originally Posted by Lifestyle_X

I hate friends that never show any interest in anything. That never ask you out. That always wait for you to talk to them. That always rely on me to drive if we go out, cause I'm the one with a license. And when I don't have my parent's car they don't care if we can't hang out together on the weekend. I hate friends who are not assertive and who think they know what life is cause they are now out of high school and work. I hate friends who are not social, and when others are around they say nothing cause they hate it.
I can go on and on, in the end I'm bitchin' about just one person actually.

Man that hardly sounds like a friendship to me too!

Maybe this is not the best piece of advice but I've been lately learning not try to change people around me but my attitude. If a friend isn't into playing basketball I call up one who is, if that person doesn't feel right about approaching girls in the street, I do that with another guy... or a girl. I guess I'm trying to say that no one person can cover all your interests or stand up to your expectations and requirements. So, get a lot of friends and do EVERYTHING you like... only with different people. It'll also bring a diversity into your life. And a lot of new people that most surely will be of help in one or another way.

You bitch about your friends not doing something important to you but it seems like all you do is just sit there and wait for them to do something important to you. That might just not happen :)

**Lifestyle_X** · 10-10-2010, 12:41 PM

Cause I'm always the one doing stuff, asking around if he doesn't want to go out in town. And I always have to drive. etc etc... It pisses me off and yes, now I'm gonna wait to see how long it takes for him to talk to me. We go way back but I feel kinda sucked out by him. Like he is used to people that always do things for him and not the other way around.

**xCrucialDudex** · 10-10-2010, 01:06 PM

Originally Posted by Lifestyle_X

Cause I'm always the one doing stuff, asking around if he doesn't want to go out in town. And I always have to drive. etc etc... It pisses me off and yes, now I'm gonna wait to see how long it takes for him to talk to me. We go way back but I feel kinda sucked out by him. Like he is used to people that always do things for him and not the other way around.

Yeah, but is there really much sense in doing so? Maybe you just need another friend who'll bug you about doing stuff together until you actually do that with him instead of expecting you to take the initiative.

**xCrucialDudex** · 10-12-2010, 06:34 AM

I hate it when people censor their webspace. Are you really that stupid? The anonymous nature of the Internet is NOT an excuse to coddle your ego and try to fit reality as you see fit duh!

**xsecx** · 10-12-2010, 08:26 AM

Originally Posted by xCrucialDudex

I hate it when people censor their webspace. Are you really that stupid? The anonymous nature of the Internet is NOT an excuse to coddle your ego and try to fit reality as you see fit duh!

if it's their webspace, then why don't they have a right to decide what's there and what isn't?

**xCrucialDudex** · 10-12-2010, 08:50 AM

Originally Posted by xsecx

if it's their webspace, then why don't they have a right to decide what's there and what isn't?

Because it's not entirely private or anonymous. I'm referring there to a very specific situation that has happened a few times with different people. Sometimes they just cut out the portions that make them feel insecure or that for some reason they don't like which is kinda stupid. If that what I or anyone else posted was actually SAID in RL interaction what would they do then? Nothing, right, because what was said was said and you can hardly do anything about it... of course there are people that try to LITERALLY run away from you (yeah, I've witnessed that kind of reaction...)

**xsecx** · 10-12-2010, 08:52 AM

Originally Posted by xCrucialDudex

Because it's not entirely private or anonymous. I'm referring there to a very specific situation that has happened a few times with different people. Sometimes they just cut out the portions that make them feel insecure or that for some reason they don't like which is kinda stupid. If that what I or anyone else posted was actually SAID in RL interaction what would they do then? Nothing, right, because what was said was said and you can hardly do anything about it... of course there are people that try to LITERALLY run away from you (yeah, I've witnessed it)

why does it matter if it's private or anonymous? If it's someone's space, why don't they have the right to edit it as they see fit?

**xCrucialDudex** · 10-12-2010, 08:55 AM

Originally Posted by xsecx

why does it matter if it's private or anonymous? If it's someone's space, why don't they have the right to edit it as they see fit?

I'm not saying they shouldn't have any rights to do that I'm saying what they do is stupid.

**xsecx** · 10-12-2010, 09:00 AM

Originally Posted by xCrucialDudex

I'm not saying they shouldn't have any rights to do that I'm saying what they do is stupid.

It's human nature. most people aren't going to let their resources be used to make themselves look bad.

**xCrucialDudex** · 10-12-2010, 09:08 AM

Originally Posted by xsecx

It's human nature. most people aren't going to let their resources be used to make themselves look bad.

I'm looking at this from the following perspective. What is being said is a valuable input given it's not a dumb critique with the sole purpose to flood and irritate you or what not. If something comes up in a conversation and someone thinks you're not cool, or stupid or whatever they have the right to deliver it, right? Now, you have the right to accept it, ignore it, pretend it didn't happen etc. But the point is by censoring their webspace they a) devote you from your right by -> b) making it look as if you never posted anything c) escape the reality. Which really pisses me off.

**xsecx** · 10-12-2010, 09:16 AM

Originally Posted by xCrucialDudex

I'm looking at this from the following perspective. What is being said is a valuable input given it's not a dumb critique with the sole purpose to flood and irritate you or what not. If something comes up in a conversation and someone thinks you're not cool, or stupid or whatever they have the right to deliver it, right? Now, you have the right to accept it, ignore it, pretend it didn't happen etc. But the point is by censoring their webspace they a) devote you from your right by -> b) making it look as if you never posted anything c) escape the reality. Which really pisses me off.

yeah but that's the point. it's not your space, you don't really have any rights to it. It's not a public space, it's a private one. The only real recourse you have in that situation, is to create your own webspace where you do have the right to say whatever you want. The concept of freedom of speech doesn't extend everywhere and it certainly doesn't extend to individually controlled webspaces.

**xCrucialDudex** · 10-12-2010, 09:40 AM

Originally Posted by xsecx

yeah but that's the point. it's not your space, you don't really have any rights to it. It's not a public space, it's a private one. The only real recourse you have in that situation, is to create your own webspace where you do have the right to say whatever you want. The concept of freedom of speech doesn't extend everywhere and it certainly doesn't extend to individually controlled webspaces.

Are you saying everyone lives in their own reality that must not be checked against other realities? A reality needs a check on reality. That's what we currently do in society with mental health institutions. With this kind of thinking you must support the idea that crazy people are in fact NOT crazy by any understanding at all.

I also don't get it... why if someone wants to make sure I know what I'm doing is bad or good, or anything doesn't inherently has a right to do that? I personally don't have a problem with that at all.

**xsecx** · 10-12-2010, 09:46 AM

Originally Posted by xCrucialDudex

Are you saying everyone lives in their own reality that must not be checked against other realities? A reality needs a check on reality. That's what we currently do in society with mental health institutions. With this kind of thinking you must support the idea that crazy people are in fact NOT crazy by any understanding at all.

Where did I say anything remotely like that?

I also don't get it... why if someone wants to make sure I know what I'm doing is bad or good, or anything doesn't inherently has a right to do that? I personally don't have a problem with that at all.

Why do you think you the right to say whatever you want, wherever you want without the threat of censorship?