Or in my case, just substance-free in general?
I would HIGHLY prefer a partner who doesn't drink or do anything at all.
I might allow cigarettes, only because I'm so used to them from my parents smoking them. But he will not smoke them in the house, nor will I ever touch one. And he should try to quit them or atleast reduce how much he smokes.
It's really hard finding a gay man who doesn't drink or do drugs, though. Like, really hard. I always feel like I'm gonna be alone forever... the few good men I've met have been taken. The only few good gay men are swooped up so quickly. Put a strip of bacon on the ground in front of a pack of like 100 dogs. Same concept. =\ Except I'm the weak dog who can't even get to it.
Bookmarks