It is not sexist at all. It might have came off that way because I used a reference for women only, my intentions are saying the same as if some gross dumb guy chooses to pull his dick out and have sex with a girl, that is just as disgusting and wrong in my eyes. So I'm not being sexist, it works both ways.
I just think that you should at least know the person, for fucks sakes be in a relationship with someone. I don't get how someone can live such a positive drug free lifestyle, but have no problem having sex with a random person RISKING the possibilities of getting diseases. It's a contradiction to me.
I'm not calling 'women' broads. I'm calling 'women who choose to open their legs for a one stand' ...broads. Just as I would call that same guy who is choosing to participate in the same act, a disgusting asshole who has no respect for women.
And to what part of this post am I not responding to?
You're talking about something as binary when it isn't. that it's either fucking someone you don't know or someone you're in a relationship with. That's just not how the world works. What you're talking about isn't reflected in straight edge at all. I've known a shit ton of people who are straight as fuck who had a bunch of sexual partners. I'm also pretty sure none of them have an diseases or suffered anything negative from it and there's no way in hell I'd say that they weren't straight edge because of who they decide to have sex with.
Directly or indirectly, they are talking about living a lifestyle free of things that hurt you.
People do crack, smoke weed, drink, etc. because it feels good, its fun, its a "way out", whatever reason....
People have casual sex because it feels good, its fun,....same shit.
What is the difference?
Both run the risk of possible disease, death, etc.
At least when you are in a relationship with a person, and/or love the person, you KNOW the person, and lesson the chances of disease.
I'm sorry I just don't consider it ok to casually/randomly have sex with someone and then claim to live a "positive healthy lifestyle".
I would call them a sellout. So I guess yes, I would consider someone who has "casual sex" a sellout in my eyes.
Ok, so maybe I shouldn't of used that term. I'm in no way sexist, and did not mean in it that way. I just get offended when people are slutty, it disgusts me in every way possible, to the point where I will literally call someone out on it, and/or leave the place I'm in because I can't stand to watch disgusting things, ie. hanging out and some girl comes around, or some "bro" dude comes around and starts acting slutty towards someone else.
No, they're talking about living a lifestyle free of mind altering substances. Sex doesn't fit into that world view, because of everything else, it's really clear that it's something that shouldn't be done. Sex, in your version, however is something that can be done within certain circumstances. Especially since it's very possible for you to get a disease from someone you're in a committed relationship with.
Also, if you think it's all about health and doing things that aren't risky, then why only limit it to sex? What about other risky behaviors? What about driving fast? Carrying guns? Shooting guns? Skateboarding? Jaywalking? Gambling?
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