I read what you write.
I am well aware of this but i am asking you why you hold this opinion, what makes you think that these other things aren't relationships, which you still don't answer. I know its your perspective but its like me saying in my perspective marriage isn't a relationship...sure its my perspective but it does help if i am able to quantify why i think that.
But all this is rooted from a term that means sexual intercourse that you original said you find disrespectful or makes people less gentlemanly. But i challenge that, it has no bearing on that, the word is nothing, you seem to find a particular behaviour ungentlemanly and disrespectful but thats not synonamous with the word fuck. And the word fuck is the root issue here...you shouldn't have an issue with that word as by its very definition is sexual intercourse in this discussion and thats simply not a bad thing. If you have a problem with debauched hedonistic young lad/ladette style culture then fine but i am contending that the word fuck is not necessarily what you should be against. Theres nothing to say it defines a different type of sexual relationship than another, it refers to intercourse and nothing more...you attach the rest of the meaning yourself.
If you don't wish to see sex discussed then yeah i would see your ideals dated but you are now saying you don't wish for that. Its just what was written and thats all i have to go on so that would be why the response was what it was. Although you don't have to just talk about sex when there is a problem, it shouldn't be a taboo subject at all really but obviously like everything there is a time and a place. If you discuss sexual maters using any wording so others in public can hear then i'm sure you will be left with the same quandry, its no reason to be against the word fuck but to be against poor awareness of social skills. I mean i can fully understand being against discussing certain things in public but again thats not solely a problem with the word fuck is it.
well english dictionarys will give you a different definition. Sure the word can be used as an offensive one and very often is but there is also a definition to it which you have to accept which is:
fuck -
verb (used with object)
1. to have sexual intercourse with.
where as bitch is soley a derogatory term or of course a female dog. A dictionary definition follows:
bitch -
3. Slang.
a. a malicious, unpleasant, selfish person, esp. a woman.
b. a lewd woman.
Comparing the two you have to admit that the term fuck, whilst still a slang term, is really not comparable for terms of disrespect.
so? You can't keep conversations in a neat little box, sometimes they take you other places, thats a beautiful thing.
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