Hi, I have this problem, which has also been an issue in the past.
It usually occurs like so:
I meet a girl
Become friends with her
Start to like her
And right when I'm about to ask her out
or a little after i do, with a yes for an answer
i find out she not sxe
It might seem weird, but here's the main issue behind it:
The fact that she not sxe, which is usually being that she drinks,
turns my stomach upside down.
It's not a thing where I'm worrying that people would judge me
It's me not being able to handle that one detail about her.
And I would talk to her about it, but I don't want to make someone
change themselves for me, cause that'll be selfish.
Whenever this problem occurs, I find my self just wishing I could change her
Or turn back time and stop her from ever starting
or something
Wishing she was against those poisons as much as me.
So my questions are,
What should I do?
Is it wrong to try and fight the negative emotion against her?
Does anybody else on here ever run across this?
I'm I just being to strict about my morals?
or is this just another "she's not the right one, the perfect girl will come when the time is right" thing?
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