Straight edge dating

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

what do you mean with only the size of california, it´s bigger than most european countries (i think). and the thing about 21 counties, that might be true i´m not very good at geography or info about my country, but i don´t think that they are like what you call counties in the states. but that might not really matter.
i think that the summers here aren´t that cloudy, but i have no miami to compare to. i like the summers here, it hot enough and the weather is ok, except for all the summer-rain.

i´ve got no idea of how much a ticket might cost or if they sell them to little girls, but i do think that it might be a bit different to go to sweden than to go to georgia. but that´s just me and i have never been outside europe and have no idea how big deal it is to travell between the different states in the US.
i also have to say that i don´t think that i would be especially glad if my 13 years old son/daughter would go to sweden, if i lived in the US and had a son/daughter.

hope some of this make sense to someone.

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no it doesn't make sense. lol i'm gonna do it, i'm gonna find a way to get a plane ticket sweden!! i've traveled alone to Spain and i guess all those european countries are the same so i'm going. i'll find some homeless man to share a cardboard box with and i'll bring some chocolate bars and have a homeless,moneyless,swedish sumer! plus i can learn how to speak swedish i can't be very hard. oh and the sweden rock festival is now in june!! hey do u know what this translates into?

"Finalen äger rum i Rockklassiker-tältet på Sweden Rock Festival fredag 10 juni.
- Första band står på scenen kl 14.30 och sista band kl 20.00.
- Finalisterna har 30 minuter på sig att imponera på juryn.
- Förrutom äran och priser (t ex biljetter till Swe Rock Festival 2006) får vinnande band ett helt eget set i Rockklassiker-tältet lördag 11 juni kl 17.30.
- Spelschema meddelas snart."

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

no it doesn't make sense. lol i'm gonna do it, i'm gonna find a way to get a plane ticket sweden!! i've traveled alone to Spain and i guess all those european countries are the same so i'm going. i'll find some homeless man to share a cardboard box with and i'll bring some chocolate bars and have a homeless,moneyless,swedish sumer! plus i can learn how to speak swedish i can't be very hard. oh and the sweden rock festival is now in june!! hey do u know what this translates into?

"Finalen äger rum i Rockklassiker-tältet på Sweden Rock Festival fredag 10 juni.
- Första band står på scenen kl 14.30 och sista band kl 20.00.
- Finalisterna har 30 minuter på sig att imponera på juryn.
- Förrutom äran och priser (t ex biljetter till Swe Rock Festival 2006) får vinnande band ett helt eget set i Rockklassiker-tältet lördag 11 juni kl 17.30.
- Spelschema meddelas snart."

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i think that many people think that swedish is pretty hard to learn, but i had no problem learning it.

the translation should be something like this:
"the final (?) takes place in the rockclassic-tent at Sweden Rock Festival friday 10 june.
- first band gets on stage at 14.30 and the last band at 20.00.
- the finalists have 30 minutes to impress the jury.
- except the honour and prizes (for exampel tickets to Swe Rock Festival 2006) the winning band gets a completely own set in the rockclassic-tent on saturday 11 june at 17.30.
- the playschedule will be announced soon."

this should be right and i think that i´ve translated(?) the most word corectly. but why do you want to know this, it´s nothing important, it´s just what demo-bands who win a place to play at on the festival. if you learn swedish, you can use some kind of translation-program otherwise, you will get more info at http://www.swedenrock.com/, where you can click at "klara band 2005" to see what bands that are going to play at the festival. but you know that it´s like a metal/hard rock-festival, don´t you? not much, if any, hardcore there.
and it starts the same day that i graduate from upper secondary school(?), or "gymnasiet" as it´s called in swedish.

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

i think that many people think that swedish is pretty hard to learn, but i had no problem learning it.

the translation should be something like this:
"the final (?) takes place in the rockclassic-tent at Sweden Rock Festival friday 10 june.
- first band gets on stage at 14.30 and the last band at 20.00.
- the finalists have 30 minutes to impress the jury.
- except the honour and prizes (for exampel tickets to Swe Rock Festival 2006) the winning band gets a completely own set in the rockclassic-tent on saturday 11 june at 17.30.
- the playschedule will be announced soon."

this should be right and i think that i´ve translated(?) the most word corectly. but why do you want to know this, it´s nothing important, it´s just what demo-bands who win a place to play at on the festival. if you learn swedish, you can use some kind of translation-program otherwise, you will get more info at http://www.swedenrock.com/, where you can click at "klara band 2005" to see what bands that are going to play at the festival. but you know that it´s like a metal/hard rock-festival, don´t you? not much, if any, hardcore there.
and it starts the same day that i graduate from upper secondary school(?), or "gymnasiet" as it´s called in swedish.

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oh ok well thanks for the translation. yeah i know its all like metal-hard rock but i love that type of music. ther a lot of bands on that list that i really like like Kansas and motley crue so it should be fun. its ok if its not core. hey can u tell me what city its in? i can't understand all those weird words on that website. thanks

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

oh ok well thanks for the translation. yeah i know its all like metal-hard rock but i love that type of music. ther a lot of bands on that list that i really like like Kansas and motley crue so it should be fun. its ok if its not core. hey can u tell me what city its in? i can't understand all those weird words on that website. thanks

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yes it´s ok if it´s not core, but i wouldn´t go there anyway, but here is some help how to find the place.
ok, the place where it takes place is called "sölvesborg", at least i think so, and it lies in "blekinge" not to far from the town called "karlshamn". if you click on "transport & kartor" you will get a few maps (kartor) that show where the festival is. i think that should do it.

and i have to say that i think that you should try to learn a few words in swedish if you want to go to sweden rock, it might be a bit easier that way.

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

no it doesn't make sense.

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by the way what didn´t make sense, i thought that i made a lot of sense when i sat and wrote it. at least a bit, a few times.

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

It was like sad seeing what these people did seriously like what is the point of going to a party to get all high for like 5 minutes and feel miserable for the rest of the night.

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There is no point, but it continues. Just like life, just like everything else. Its the people who have a point to prove that keep it going. If there wasnt a constant doubt, nothing would exist.

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

i'm stuck at these guys houses watching them smoke, then drink, the puke, then get horny, and after that whole wasted afternoon they take me out at night to get more weed from their dealer! This is how fucked up my life is!! and then when finally i find a decent boy who will accept me on the first day he asks to have sex with me!!! THIS IS HOW FUCKED UP MY LIFE IS!!!

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If your problems are occuring because of YOUR decision to be with the people and things that cause the problems, then YOU have to change it. Not some random hero on the internet that will give you the secret to neverending happyness and fun.

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Originally Posted by Morgedge

Point being, it's like those King things, If a father is a good King, the son gets a ticket into kingship, or something like that.

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How ignorant of you to try to size up to someone who kills people for money and entertainment. (Dubya?)

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Originally Posted by PitchInAndDie

If there wasnt a constant doubt, nothing would exist.

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Nothing does exist, theres no doubt about it.

ive never seen someone bitch about living in Miami in my life. Ill trade you lives, i get to go through high school again in miami and you can come to St Louis and work in a warehouse.

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

by the way what didn´t make sense, i thought that i made a lot of sense when i sat and wrote it. at least a bit, a few times.

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just kiding, u make a lot of sense its just i like it better when people give me support to do things not back out of them.

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Originally Posted by PitchInAndDie

If your problems are occuring because of YOUR decision to be with the people and things that cause the problems, then YOU have to change it. Not some random hero on the internet that will give you the secret to neverending happyness and fun.

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ok i'm working on that

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Originally Posted by xResolvex

ive never seen someone bitch about living in Miami in my life. Ill trade you lives, i get to go through high school again in miami and you can come to St Louis and work in a warehouse.

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i don't bitch, i speak my mind. have u ever lived in miami?? its a lot of fun for tourists and stuff cause they come and they go but when u actually live here, man the city sucks.

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Originally Posted by xResolvex

ive never seen someone bitch about living in Miami in my life. Ill trade you lives, i get to go through high school again in miami and you can come to St Louis and work in a warehouse.

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you must not know many people from miami then.

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

just kiding, u make a lot of sense its just i like it better when people give me support to do things not back out of them.

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ok, then i´m sorry for not supporting you the way you want to. but you aren´t seriously(?) thinking about going to sweden rock, are you? it´s kinda hard for me to see when they are kidding over the webby thingy.

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

i don't bitch, i speak my mind. have u ever lived in miami?? its a lot of fun for tourists and stuff cause they come and they go but when u actually live here, man the city sucks.

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i think that´s true for most big tourist attracting places.

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

ok, then i´m sorry for not supporting you the way you want to. but you aren´t seriously(?) thinking about going to sweden rock, are you? it´s kinda hard for me to see when they are kidding over the webby thingy.


i think that´s true for most big tourist attracting places.

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why wouldn't i be serious? course i'm serious! i asked my parents if i could go with some friends and they said i could if i raised the money but then i remember that i gotta go to fuckin colombia to spend time with my dad so no sweden this year! but i really wanted to go! i even found out how much it cost its $352 roundtrip. i was really excited but whatever, i'll go next year for sweden rock. sounds fun.

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

why wouldn't i be serious? course i'm serious! i asked my parents if i could go with some friends and they said i could if i raised the money but then i remember that i gotta go to fuckin colombia to spend time with my dad so no sweden this year! but i really wanted to go! i even found out how much it cost its $352 roundtrip. i was really excited but whatever, i'll go next year for sweden rock. sounds fun.

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ok, sorry then.
that´s pretty cool actually that you even looked up what it would cost for everything, but don´t you think that it´s a bit much. and i think that it might be fun if you like that kind of music, i have a lot of friends who has been there over the last years.
hope you find something else that you think is fun this summer.

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

ok, sorry then.
that´s pretty cool actually that you even looked up what it would cost for everything, but don´t you think that it´s a bit much. and i think that it might be fun if you like that kind of music, i have a lot of friends who has been there over the last years.
hope you find something else that you think is fun this summer.

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ya its a lot of money plus hotel plus transportation plus the ticket to swedish rock so it would have been a lot of money. maybe i'll go next year when i have saved up some money. t5hanks though for the translations and stuff.

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

ya its a lot of money plus hotel plus transportation plus the ticket to swedish rock so it would have been a lot of money. maybe i'll go next year when i have saved up some money. t5hanks though for the translations and stuff.

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it´s my pleasure to help you with the translation.
but would you live in a hotel? one of the things with (swedish) festivals is that you sleep in tents at a campingplace.

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

it´s my pleasure to help you with the translation.
but would you live in a hotel? one of the things with (swedish) festivals is that you sleep in tents at a campingplace.

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ME (a 13 year old girl) alone in a tent with like 3000 drunk men around me. I DON'T THINK SO! Unless i go with some of my 19 year old bodyguards who will keep me safe (if they aren't high) lol

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

ME (a 13 year old girl) alone in a tent with like 3000 drunk men around me. I DON'T THINK SO! Unless i go with some of my 19 year old bodyguards who will keep me safe (if they aren't high) lol

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yeah, didn´t think about that.

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

yeah, didn´t think about that.

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lol

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Originally Posted by spelltheo

ME (a 13 year old girl) alone in a tent with like 3000 drunk men around me. I DON'T THINK SO! Unless i go with some of my 19 year old bodyguards who will keep me safe (if they aren't high) lol

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and i think it´s closer to one million drunk men.

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

and i think it´s closer to one million drunk men.

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yeah even worse lol

maybe even a few millions

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Originally Posted by gatsaw

maybe even a few millions

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wow it keeps getting better! lol

WOW! well it's been a while since i've been on but it seems like there is alot of people with the same problume. Well hey i guess we'll have to just think about it like this shit happens

indeed.. i've never had a bf that was straight edge.. i gave up looking after a while.. but the guy i'm involved with is really considerate of me.. when i'm around.. no drinking, smoking.. or drugs.. he even prepares food with no meat in it for me :) no pressure at all and we've been together for a little over a year..

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Originally Posted by xGingerSnapsx

indeed.. i've never had a bf that was straight edge.. i gave up looking after a while.. but the guy i'm involved with is really considerate of me.. when i'm around.. no drinking, smoking.. or drugs.. he even prepares food with no meat in it for me :) no pressure at all and we've been together for a little over a year..

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aww that's really nice i'm glad to hear it!

i know.. his friends are really good abou tit too

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Originally Posted by xGingerSnapsx

i know.. his friends are really good abou tit too

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That's cool - he sounds really considerate and stuff :)

:P he is. i'm lucky lucky :) i live is such a small area its hard to find people like that :(

i've been involved with non-edge girls.. in the true sense that i wanted to be with them for who they are.. then my anti-drug, anti-meat/dairy self kicks in and kicks both our asses. so, that's that.

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Originally Posted by drughate_vegan

i've been involved with non-edge girls.. in the true sense that i wanted to be with them for who they are.. then my anti-drug, anti-meat/dairy self kicks in and kicks both our asses. so, that's that.

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so in the end you don't want them to be who they are.

personally, I married an edge girl because I valued those beliefs enough to find someone who shared them and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I've also dated girls who weren't edge or drug free, and I honestly couldn't see being with them forever due to the conflicts that would arise from the differences in opinion.

yeah thats true. me and my have conflicts here and there but it hasn't been enough to break us apart yet.. i hope it doesn't.. but hes very passive with things.. and lets a lot of of stuff go so that might be a big part of us being together still .. i can be psycotic at times :(

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Originally Posted by xGingerSnapsx

yeah thats true. me and my have conflicts here and there but it hasn't been enough to break us apart yet.. i hope it doesn't.. but hes very passive with things.. and lets a lot of of stuff go so that might be a big part of us being together still .. i can be psycotic at times :(

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then it sounds like you've got bigger issues at play than basic moral compatibility.

hmm... idk. we get along.. its more of lettting little things go.

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Originally Posted by xGingerSnapsx

hmm... idk. we get along.. its more of lettting little things go.

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not to fuck with your head too much, but if you have crazy moments, and dude is passive and lets things slide, chances are you don't get along that well, he just might not like to deal with conflict.

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Originally Posted by xsecx

so in the end you don't want them to be who they are.

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it is a very conflictive stance. yes.

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Originally Posted by xsecx

personally, I married an edge girl because I valued those beliefs enough to find someone who shared them and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I've also dated girls who weren't edge or drug free, and I honestly couldn't see being with them forever due to the conflicts that would arise from the differences in opinion.

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yeah - there definitely is nothign wrong with it. sticking to what you know you want and following through with your true stance - that's more important than anything. word.

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Originally Posted by xGingerSnapsx

hmm... idk. we get along.. its more of lettting little things go.

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what are some things he does stand for?