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08-07-2009, 03:41 PM
Lifestyle_X

I hate it when people treat/see others as stereotypes, like IT'ers as nerds, gamers as freaks, ...
08-07-2009, 06:04 PM
straightXed

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Originally Posted by linsee

omgz me 2!

I hate when people spell the as teh on purpose and not in a typing error.

I really hate it when people type lol at everything, i get this impression they are constantly laughing uncontrolably and that perhaps they are slightly maniacal! But things like teh and just stupid internet sayings are annoying as hell.

On the flipside, i actually always appreciate these boards because of the little extra effort people put into typing sense and using quotes etc.
08-08-2009, 03:24 AM
nataliefayeg

I hate the fact that almost all of the straight edge people in my city hate me and I have no idea why.
08-08-2009, 05:12 AM
straightXed

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Originally Posted by nataliefayeg

I hate the fact that almost all of the straight edge people in my city hate me and I have no idea why.

How do you know they hate you, what have they done to make you think this?
08-08-2009, 05:34 AM
nataliefayeg

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Originally Posted by straightXed

How do you know they hate you, what have they done to make you think this?

Told me flat out. I've been beat up at shows a few times just because they don't like me for some unknown reason.
08-08-2009, 05:48 AM
straightXed

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Originally Posted by nataliefayeg

Told me flat out. I've been beat up at shows a few times just because they don't like me for some unknown reason.

So they beat you up with no provocation and no reason? Personally i'd take some solace in the fact you aren't friends with people like that. Sure it may suck that you haven't found any local straightedge people to be friends with but i wouldn't want to be if they are like that.
08-08-2009, 11:51 AM
nataliefayeg

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Originally Posted by straightXed

So they beat you up with no provocation and no reason? Personally i'd take some solace in the fact you aren't friends with people like that. Sure it may suck that you haven't found any local straightedge people to be friends with but i wouldn't want to be if they are like that.

Well not all of them are like that but they all associate together. And a lot of the time people think I'm just like them. It's rather annoying.
08-09-2009, 09:08 AM
JustEmily

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Originally Posted by nataliefayeg

Told me flat out. I've been beat up at shows a few times just because they don't like me for some unknown reason.

how old are you? it sounds like an immaturity thing. these people are losers, and their karma will come back to them.

until then, bring your brass knuckles to every show!
08-09-2009, 01:19 PM
Lifestyle_X

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Originally Posted by JustEmily

how old are you? it sounds like an immaturity thing. these people are losers, and their karma will come back to them.

until then, bring your brass knuckles to every show!

illegal in belgium. actually, is it illegal too in the US ?
08-09-2009, 05:12 PM
straightXed

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Originally Posted by Lifestyle_X

illegal in belgium. actually, is it illegal too in the US ?

Brass knuckles are a really nasty thing, i hate the idea of them being associated with straightedge in anyway...its crude and thugish. I hate the tough guy symbolism and i think its a good thing that its illegal.
08-09-2009, 05:18 PM
straightXed

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Originally Posted by nataliefayeg

Well not all of them are like that but they all associate together. And a lot of the time people think I'm just like them. It's rather annoying.

Well if you can find some of them to be more like minded then cool but if not then i really wonder why you would want to be friends with them at all. For the record the picture you are painting here really isn't true of all people involved in straightedge, in fact it seems quite an odd pattern of behaviour. So perhaps some different shows with perhaps a more positive vibe my put you in contact with some more decent people, i still find it shocking that these kids beat you for no apparent reason at all.
08-09-2009, 10:40 PM
nataliefayeg

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Originally Posted by straightXed

Well if you can find some of them to be more like minded then cool but if not then i really wonder why you would want to be friends with them at all. For the record the picture you are painting here really isn't true of all people involved in straightedge, in fact it seems quite an odd pattern of behaviour. So perhaps some different shows with perhaps a more positive vibe my put you in contact with some more decent people, i still find it shocking that these kids beat you for no apparent reason at all.

I'm eighteen. They're between eighteen and 28. Mostly 21-24. I feel bad for them because all they do is fight and live at home with no jobs. It's pathetic. But it would be nice to have at least one friend that believes in the same things as me so I no longer feel like I'm fighting for what I believe in all the time and like I have to prove myself to everybody. I'm tired of explaining my reason for being straight edge. My question is: Why do I need a reason to not do those things when they don't have to have reasons to do them. It's bullshit. But I deal. And also, they dislike me because I don't believe in fighting and don't have the same belief system as them for every single thing in life.
08-09-2009, 10:56 PM
rodrigo

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Originally Posted by nataliefayeg

I'm eighteen. They're between eighteen and 28. Mostly 21-24. I feel bad for them because all they do is fight and live at home with no jobs. It's pathetic. But it would be nice to have at least one friend that believes in the same things as me so I no longer feel like I'm fighting for what I believe in all the time and like I have to prove myself to everybody. I'm tired of explaining my reason for being straight edge. My question is: Why do I need a reason to not do those things when they don't have to have reasons to do them. It's bullshit. But I deal. And also, they dislike me because I don't believe in fighting and don't have the same belief system as them for every single thing in life.

i'd suggest to do what ed said, look for more positive shows, but also, even if its great to have friends who feel like you and who like the same things, sometimes great friends dont have to like exactly what you like, and a good friend respects your choices when they make sense. my best friend is not into hardcore but we share a whole lot of other things. at least thats my experience.
08-10-2009, 02:00 AM
nataliefayeg

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Originally Posted by rodrigo

i'd suggest to do what ed said, look for more positive shows, but also, even if its great to have friends who feel like you and who like the same things, sometimes great friends dont have to like exactly what you like, and a good friend respects your choices when they make sense. my best friend is not into hardcore but we share a whole lot of other things. at least thats my experience.

Yeah. I think I'm just at an inbetween stage. I'm finally moving out and getting away from a lot of people and meeting a ton of new people. I've lost pretty much all my friends except for a couple new ones. But I don't mind. It's tough but better than being stuck in a shit spot. I go to all kinds of shows. I haven't gone to many lately because I'm pretty broke. Except I went to Warped today and am seeing SYG, FYS and FW on the 26th. STOKED.
08-11-2009, 05:55 PM
nataliefayeg

I hate sweating.

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